Ayoooo,
Sup wit it, ya boy Craig allen checkn in and honestly i really didn’t think i would be able to write this because my sinuses have been fuckn kickn my ASS! Think it may be the weatha, what yall think? lol i think YEZZIR!
ANYWAAAYYY! Im talkn to my roommate last night and the number one thing she always mentions is “When i go out, a guy will rarely hit on me” At first i thought she was bullshittn me because shes hot and im saying to myself “There is no possible way on this green earth she is bein real wit me right now“..Well Feedbak.com family turns out the shit is VERY true. For NYE i was out at Hudson downtown wit my roommate and her friend and 20 minutes in guys would just STARE annnd STARE annnnd STARE annnd STARE lol. No guy eva approached them but they had their STARE game tight though :).
Heres the thing, staring will only get you but so far. Even with that, staring can be creepy, if your lookn at a girl like you want her social security number that shit is just NOT IT! But if its a gentle “Im tryna holla” stare, thats cool. Don’t stare for too long, there is a 1 or 2 stares maximum, then make the subtle approach, nothn too fancy jus be you (Which is hopefully a good thing lol)…
CONFIDENCE, CONFIDENCE, CONFIDENCE, CONFIDENCE. This is what you will need to approach a beautiful woman, let alone any woman because it all requires the same thing… Eye contact is always a good way to establish some sort of ground in letting her know you have some sort of confidence to talk to her, so looking in her eyes (in a non creepy way) is a good starter. Looking down at your shoes and watch every five minutes, the interest she has for you will be gone. Granted some girls like shy guys and thats ok, but just to be safe eye contact is always good.
Confidence aint gon in yo lap! Cmon Now 🙂 its something that takes time and practice and let downs OBVIOUSLY. Now its never a good thing to be presumptuous, but an even balance of confidence and natural actions should serve you just fine. Just remember to be as natural as you know you can be and don’t premeditate certain pick up lines you are gonna use on her that shit right there is NO BUENO!!! NO bueno son…
The next time you’re out Downtown and you see a beautiful woman or young lady, don’t just STARE! Approach her and if she turns you down, then just chalk it up, it will only make your approach that much better and seem more natural the next time around. Getting turned down happens all the time to EVERYONE so its all love. SO! wit that said , have no intentions and just be you and you will find the confidence that is needed.
Live. Love. Learn
#BONG!!!
Yes!! I am so glad you brought this up.. I thought maybe it was just me.. thought maybe I dance to much… or look too independent… or intimidating.. or drunk or something 🙂
Seriously.. if you staring that hard.. just go up and say hi. To me, it doesn’t take some serious game or anything. Now, don’t spill your drink on me or dry hump me on the dance floor. Just a genuine smile and hello.
We will both know in seconds if the connection is there.